MOVE Series# 10, The Night I Lost The Friend I Loved

MOVE Series# 10, The Night I Lost The Friend I Loved
By: Bobby Sullivan

Mark 14:41-52

Quote of the week: “Judas betrayed Jesus with a kiss because the Judas spirit wants intimacy without covenant. It’s called cohabiting…it’s all about getting the benefits of relationship without the sacrifice of covenant. People under the influence of this spirit come as a consumer not a contributor…they are in relationship for what they can get not what they can give.” Kris Vallotton

⁴¹After praying for the third time, he returned to his disciples and awoke them again, saying, “Do you plan on sleeping and resting indefinitely? That’s enough sleep! The end has come and the hour has arrived for the Son of Man to be handed over to the authority of sinful men. ⁴²Get up and let’s go. Don’t you see? My betrayer draws near.”

Jesus’ Betrayal and Arrest

⁴³At that moment Judas, one of the Twelve, arrived, along with a large crowd of men armed with swords and clubs. They had been sent to arrest Jesus by order of the ruling priests, the religious scholars, and the Jewish leaders. ⁴⁴Now, Judas, the traitor, had arranged to give them a signal that would identify Jesus, for he had told them, “Jesus is the man I will kiss. So grab him and take him safely away.” ⁴⁵Judas quickly stepped up to Jesus and said, “Rabbi, my Teacher!” and he kissed him affectionately on both cheeks.⁴⁶Then the armed men seized Jesus to arrest him. ⁴⁷One of the disciples^[^c^] pulled out a sword^[^d^] and swung it at the servant of Caiaphas, the high priest, slashing off his ear.⁴⁸Jesus said to the mob, “Why would you arrest me with swords and clubs as though I were an outlaw? ⁴⁹Day after day I sat with you in the temple courts, teaching the people, yet you didn’t arrest me then. But all of this fulfills the prophecies of the Scriptures.” ⁵⁰At that point all of his disciples ran away and abandoned him.

Intro: On December 8, 1941, President of the United States, Franklin Delano Roosevelt, said the following words: “Yesterday, December 7, 1941—a date which will live in infamy—the United States of America was suddenly and deliberately attacked by naval and air forces of the Empire of Japan.” This speech was made on the heels of a surprise attack by Japanese forces on the United States Naval base in Hawaii. The attack by Japan, and the speech by Roosevelt, were the catalysts that forced America into World War II.

There have been many other infamous dates in human history. The word “infamous” means to “have a very bad reputation”. Among the more infamous days in American history are these few:

October 29, 1929 – The stock market crash that led to the great depression.
November 22, 1963 – The assassination of President John F. Kennedy in Dallas, TX.
April 4, 1968 – The assassination of Martin Luther King in Memphis, TN.
January 22, 1973 – The day the United States Supreme Court handed down its decision on Roe v. Wade. This decision effectively legalized abortion, resulting in the deaths of millions of unborn human babies.
September 11, 2001 – The day radical Islamic terrorists declared war on the United States by flying occupied passenger jets into public, American landmarks.

Our text tells us about the events of one infamous night that took place 2,000 years ago. The night Jesus was arrested, just prior to His crucifixion, was A Night To Remember.

It was a night filled with such treachery, hatred and brutality, that it stands out as one of the most infamous dates in human history.

The events of that night have something to teach us today. They have something to say about Jesus and they have something to say about the human condition.

I want to preach about The Night I lost the friend I loved. I want you to see that it was A Night Of Conspiracies; A Night Of Courage; A Night Of Compromises; and A Night Of Compassion.

IT WAS A NIGHT OF CONSPIRACIES

When Jesus finishes praying to His Father, vv. 35-36, Jesus announces to His men that the time of His betrayal has arrived, vv. 41-42.

While the Lord was yet speaking, Judas appeared with a large group of soldiers. They are there to take Jesus into custody and they were led to His location by that traitor, Judas.

Let’s take a few moments to walk through verses 43-46 and consider a few of the truths revealed here.)

⁴⁵Judas quickly stepped up to Jesus and said, “Rabbi, my Teacher!” and he kissed him affectionately on both cheeks.⁴⁶Then the armed men seized Jesus to arrest him

We are told that the leader of the group is “Judas”. He is a man who has walked with Jesus in intimate fellowship for over three years. He is a man who has heard the Gospel of grace preached on many occasions. Yet, Judas has rejected that Gospel, just as he rejected the Lord Jesus Christ.

He wanted the money, not the ministry

He was stealing from the money bag that supported Jesus and His men, John 12:6. Judas probably believed, at first, that Jesus was going to overthrow Rome and establish a new kingdom in Israel. He probably followed Jesus hoping to get in on the action. He wanted to get rich.

When it became clear that Jesus would not make His followers wealthy, Judas made a deal with the Lord’s enemies, the Jewish religious leaders, and sold Jesus to them for “thirty pieces of silver”, Mark 14:10-11; Matt. 26:15. Judas made a deal with the Lord’s enemies to betray Him, and since Judas knew where Jesus spent His time, John 18:2, Judas led them to where Jesus was.

Apparently, the Jews believed that Jesus would put up a fight. John 18:3 tells us that Judas came accompanied by a “band of men and officers”. A “band” of men refers to a Roman “cohort” which numbered some 600 men when at full strength. Apparently, part of these men were Roman soldiers and part of them were members of the Temple police. Either way, when they came to get Jesus, they were armed to the teeth, v. 43. The Roman soldiers carried their Roman short swords, while the Temple police carried clubs. They came ready for action.
Judas is not alone in this conspiracy. His accomplices are the Jewish Sanhedrin, v. 43 and the Roman government, John 18:3, 12.
When they arrived at Gethsemane, Jesus went out to meet them, John 18:4. He asked them for whom they were looking. They told Him and He readily identified Himself.

Even though Jesus told them Who He was, Judas still came to Him and kissed Him on the cheek. Kissing in that culture was a sign of respect and affection. This kind of kiss was a special form of homage and honor. Typically, a person would kiss the one he wanted to honor on the feet, the back of the hand, on the hem of his garment, or on the palm of the hand. Judas chose to embrace Jesus and kiss Him on His cheek, this kind of kiss showed the deepest love and affection. It was usually reserved for those with whom the person had a close, intimate relationship.

When Judas kissed the Lord, it was not just a peck on the cheek. The word “kissed” refers to “a series of kisses”. Judas kept on kissing the Lord. When Judas did this, the guards came and took Jesus captive and led Him away.

By the way, Jesus offered no resistance! He was exactly like Isaiah said He would be, He was oppressed and afflicted,yet he did not open his mouth; he was led like a lamb to the slaughter, and as a sheep before its shearers is silent, so he did not open his mouth,” Isa. 53:7.

(Note: Judas was as close to Jesus Christ as any man who ever lived. He heard the Gospel from the lips of “the Author and Finisher of our faith”. He witnessed love and grace in action every day. He saw the power of God like only a hand full of others has ever seen it.

He heard the truth. He saw the truth. He even acknowledged the truth, Matt. 27:4. Yet, Judas died, separated for all eternity because he failed to believe the truth.

When you reach the end of your life, all the years of your existence will be condensed into one question: “What did you do with Jesus?” Nothing else will be important. Nothing else will matter.

IT WAS A NIGHT OF COURAGE

As I read these verses, one of the things that stands out to me is the courage of the Lord Jesus Christ. He goes out to meet the soldiers when they arrive, John 18:4. He confronts them about their mission, John 18:4. He willfully identifies Himself to them, John 18:5. ⁴Jesus, knowing full well what was about to happen, went out to the garden entrance to meet them. Stepping forward, he asked, “Who are you looking for?”⁵“Jesus of Nazareth,” they replied. (Now Judas, the traitor, was among them.) He replied, “I am he.”

He does not resist them when they take Him into captivity, Mark 14:46.

Jesus Christ is no shrinking violet. He is not filled with fear. He knows that He is in the perfect will of His Father, Mark 14:49.

He knows that everything He is about to face has been predetermined for Him by His Father. Jesus knows what lies ahead of Him. He understands that His men will forsake Him, He knows the nation of Israel will reject Him. He knows about the violence that He is about to suffer. He knows they will beat Him, mock Him, spit on Him, beat Him with a cat-of-nine-tails, and He knows that they will crucify Him between two thieves. He knows all these thing, yet He faces them all with courage. Cowards run when they are confronted

Why? John 4:34 He did it because He was committed to His Father’s will. He did because He loved you, Rom. 5:8. He did it because it was the only hope we had for salvation, Heb. 9:22.

Jesus came into this world for this moment and He does not try to get out of it. His demeanor is one of absolute courage and strength.

I thank Him for His courage in the face of brutality, hatred, rejection, violence, pain and judgment. I praise Him that He had the guts to face everything that came His way so that we might be saved.

It Was a Night of Compromises

When Jesus is arrested, every single disciple runs away in fear, Mark 14 vs.50. One unnamed young man, whom many believe to be Mark, vv. 51-52, runs away, leaving his garment in the hands of the soldiers.

⁵⁰And they all forsook him, and fled

The disciples never thought this moment would come, Mark 14:31. They all believed in their hearts that they would stand with the Lord Jesus to the very end. They all really believed that they would die with Him and even for Him. Peter showed the most courage when he drew his sword in defense of the Lord, v. 47.

Yet, when Jesus was arrested, and when He did not resist arrest, the disciples were shaken to the very core of their beliefs, and they all ran away. The word “forsook” means “to abandon someone or to leave them behind”. The word “fled” means “to seek safety by flight; to vanish”. These men literally ran away and vanished into the night, they were convinced they would stand with Jesus, but when the hour of testing came, they melted away into the shadows and left Jesus alone with His enemies.

Let’s not be too hard on these men. Let’s not boast about what we would do if we found ourselves in their situation. I would like to think that I would be faithful to Jesus, but you never know!

Ø On April 20, 1999 Eric Harris and Dylan Klebold went on a shooting rampage at Columbine High School near Littleton, CO. They murdered 12 students and teacher that day and wounded 23 other people. Among their victims was a student named Cassie Bernall. Eric Harris found Cassie hiding under a computer table. He knelt down beside her and asked, “Do you believe in God?” When she said “Yes”, Harris killed her. What would you have done?

Ø In the days of the old Soviet Union, soldiers enter a meeting place where Christians are meeting in secret, worshipping the Lord. The soldiers enter and yell, “If you are an unbeliever, leave now! If you are a believer, line up against the wall!” Most of the crowd leaves. A few faithful believers go to the wall and to their deaths, refusing to dishonor the Lord Who bought them. What would you have done?

Ø In the days of the Roman Emperor Nero, there was a band of elite guard known as the “Emperor’s Wrestlers”. These men had gained great success by wrestling in the Roman amphitheater and pledging their allegiance to Nero with these words, “We, the wrestlers, wrestling for you, O Emperor; to win for you the victory and from you, the victor’s crown.”

When the Roman army fought in Gaul, no soldiers were braver or more loyal. But news reached Nero that many Roman soldiers had accepted the Christian faith. A decree was dispatched to the Roman Centurion Vespasian, which said “If there be any soldiers who cling to the Christian faith, they must die!”

The decree was received in the dead of winter while the soldiers were camped next to a frozen lake. With a sinking heart, Vespasian called his soldiers together and asked the question, “Do any of you cling to the faith of the Christians? If so, step forward!”

Instantly forty wrestlers stepped forward, saluted and stood at attention. Vespasian paused. He had not expected so many, nor such select soldiers.

Trying to find a way out of his dilemma, Vespasian announced, “I shall await your answer at sundown.” Sundown came and again the question was asked. Again, forty wrestlers stepped forward.

Vespasian pleaded with them to deny their faith without success. Finally he said, “The decree of the Emperor must be obeyed, but I am not willing that your comrades should shed our blood. I am ordering you to march out upon that lake of ice, and I shall leave you to the mercy of the elements.”

The forty wrestlers were stripped and marched out on to the center of the frozen lake. As they marched they broke into the chant of the arena, “Forty wrestlers, wrestling for You, O Christ; to win for You the victory and from You, the victor’s crown.” Through the long hours of the night Vespasian stood by his campfire and listened to the wrestler’s chant as it grew fainter and fainter.

As morning drew near one wrestler, overcome by exposure, crept quietly toward the fire; and in the extremity of his suffering he renounced his Lord. Softly but clearly from the frozen lake came the chant, “Thirty-nine wrestlers, wrestling for You, O Christ; to win for You the victory and from You, the crown.”

The Centurion Vespasian looked at the wrestler drawing close to the fire. Off came his helmet and clothing, and Vespasian ran out onto the ice crying, “Forty wrestlers, wrestling for You, O Christ; to win for You the victory and from You, the crown!”

What would you have done? We need to stand up to stand out. Anyone can watch, comment and condemn. The days of counterfeit Christianity must come to an end.

Faith was never intended to be crafted for convenience

It Was A Night Of Conspiracies
It Was A Night Of Courage

III. It Was A Night Of Compromises

IT WAS A NIGHT OF COMPASSION

In spite of all the tragedies and trials that presented themselves that ugly night, the character of Jesus was on display. Even as He was betrayed by Judas, forsaken by His disciples and arrested by His enemies, Jesus embodied the perfect picture of grace and love. Notice how Jesus showed His compassion to Judas

The Lord Jesus Demonstrated Compassion To Judas Iscariot – Judas was a traitor! Judas sold Jesus for the price of a slave. Judas led a mob to arrest Jesus. Judas came to Jesus and actually betrayed Him with a kiss.

When Judas did this, the Lord Jesus did not react in anger. According to Matt. 26:50, Jesus said, “…My beloved friend,^] Jesus said, “is this why you’ve come?” Jesus looked in the eyes of the man who was betraying Him to His death and Jesus called Him “friend”. It is a word that refers to a person’s “comrades”, his “partners”, his “good friends”. It is an expression of love and good will.

Jesus knows what Judas is doing. Jesus knows that Judas has rejected the Lord and the Gospel. Jesus knows that Judas is a lying, traitorous hypocrite. Yet, Jesus reaches out to Judas one more time!

WOULD YOU WASH THE FEET OF JUDAS?

The Lord does the same for you. The very fact that you are alive is proof of the Lord’s grace in your life. He is giving you another opportunity to repent. Every time you hear a Gospel sermon, God is reaching out to you. Every time you rub shoulders with a Christian, God is reaching out to you. Every time you draw a breath, God is reaching out to you! He does it so that you will come to Him for salvation. He does it because He loves you.

Sermon outline used by permission from Alan Carr, Pastor of Calvary Baptist Church in Lenoir, NC.